{"id":1515,"date":"2010-11-16T21:53:05","date_gmt":"2010-11-16T21:53:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/?p=1515"},"modified":"2010-11-17T00:02:28","modified_gmt":"2010-11-17T00:02:28","slug":"staying-intact","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2010\/11\/16\/staying-intact\/","title":{"rendered":"by the memory of"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>from <a href=\"http:\/\/karaj.tumblr.com\/\">karaj<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cLet\u2019s face it. We\u2019re undone by each other. And if we\u2019re not, we\u2019re missing something. If this seems so clearly the case with grief, it is only because it was already the case with desire. One does not always stay intact. It may be that one wants to, or does, but it may also be that despite one\u2019s best efforts, one is undone, in the face of the other, by the touch, by the scent, by the feel, by the prospect of the touch, by the memory of the feel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2014Judith Butler, <em>Undoing Gender<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(whether or not one is intact in the first place\u2026)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>from karaj: \u201cLet\u2019s face it. We\u2019re undone by each other. And if we\u2019re not, we\u2019re missing something. If this seems so clearly the case with grief, it is only because it was already the case with desire. One does not always stay intact. It may be that one wants to, or does, but it may [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1515"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1515\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1533,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1515\/revisions\/1533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}