{"id":6972,"date":"2013-09-05T21:41:39","date_gmt":"2013-09-05T21:41:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/?p=6972"},"modified":"2013-09-05T21:41:39","modified_gmt":"2013-09-05T21:41:39","slug":"hard-work-lessons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/05\/hard-work-lessons\/","title":{"rendered":"hard work lessons"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>learning hard things about work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>HAVE BOUNDARIES<\/li>\n<li>BE PLEASANT BUT FIRM<\/li>\n<li>NICENESS COUNTS BUT MOSTLY BUSINESS COUNTS<\/li>\n<li>NO SOFT PERMEABLE BORDERS, ONLY FIRM NO BULLSHIT BORDERS<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>got a passive aggressive invoice from a contractor friend yesterday, including a narrative that ended with &#8220;I personally would have been better off doing regular construction with my time!&#8221; [exclamation point his] (for the record, i asked him if he could do the project [two weeks out] and if he couldn&#8217;t, i could find someone else.)<\/p>\n<p>i&#8217;m starting to think terrible things like &#8220;what would a man do in this situation.&#8221; would a man bear this behavior. would a man even notice this behavior. would a man notice that jackass exclamation point.<\/p>\n<p>niceness \u2260 respect<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>learning hard things about work: HAVE BOUNDARIES BE PLEASANT BUT FIRM NICENESS COUNTS BUT MOSTLY BUSINESS COUNTS NO SOFT PERMEABLE BORDERS, ONLY FIRM NO BULLSHIT BORDERS got a passive aggressive invoice from a contractor friend yesterday, including a narrative that ended with &#8220;I personally would have been better off doing regular construction with my time!&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6972","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6972","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6972"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6972\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6976,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6972\/revisions\/6976"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6972"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6972"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6972"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}