{"id":7037,"date":"2013-09-18T21:25:44","date_gmt":"2013-09-18T21:25:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/?p=7037"},"modified":"2013-09-25T01:27:01","modified_gmt":"2013-09-25T01:27:01","slug":"no-but-seriously-fuck-off","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/18\/no-but-seriously-fuck-off\/","title":{"rendered":"no but seriously"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[RANT POST, IT&#8217;S NOT PRETTY, APOLOGIES]<\/p>\n<p>just talked to my coworker about that <a href=\"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/05\/hard-work-lessons\/\" target=\"_blank\">problem lighting contractor<\/a>, who two weeks ago sent me three passive aggressive ranting-out-loud emails (though he apologized at the end, sort of, by saying &#8220;I was afraid I might damage our relationship,&#8221; hahaha no but yes), but i totally heard out his issues, totally consulted my <a href=\"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/11\/my-mom-gave-me-this-book\/\" target=\"_blank\">book<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>anyway, but next week, we have a visual arts opening, community dinner and band, of course unfortunately we need him.<\/p>\n<p>i told him the band would be playing outside, in daylight, so no lights needed, but i did really need him to light the community dinner. he said fine, great.<\/p>\n<p>but then he talks to my coworker today about how he thinks we really should light the band.<\/p>\n<p>no big deal, chill nicole, peace please, but it rubbed me the wrong way, because excuse, talk to me, second ex-cuse, the band doesn&#8217;t fucking need lights, third excuse, i would never get\u00a0 him to do the lights at this point, because he&#8217;s already overcommited (he&#8217;s lighting the show and the dinner, which is a ton of work, and almost every event we&#8217;ve worked together, he&#8217;s finishing it at the last minute, or forgoing something i&#8217;ve requested because he&#8217;s run out of time, why do we have to play out this cycle every time?).<\/p>\n<p>plus he just told me that he was going to raise his prices (<em>&#8220;I understand that the rate I charge is the same rate you pay high school dropouts from Mexico that paint the gallery. I charge less than 40% of what you pay IT subs and less than 30% of plumbing subs, about 50-60% of the going rate for a welder. I think the solution is to start billing at a more realistic rate like I charge for other lighting gigs.&#8221;<\/em>) please, for sure do that so i do not have to get these emails ever again.<\/p>\n<p>Love,<br \/>\nKind of a Mad Person Today Even Though I&#8217;m Going to Be a Bridesmaid in Two Weddings in 2014 and That Is Actually a Dream Come True<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[RANT POST, IT&#8217;S NOT PRETTY, APOLOGIES] just talked to my coworker about that problem lighting contractor, who two weeks ago sent me three passive aggressive ranting-out-loud emails (though he apologized at the end, sort of, by saying &#8220;I was afraid I might damage our relationship,&#8221; hahaha no but yes), but i totally heard out his [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7037","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7037","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7037"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7037\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7109,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7037\/revisions\/7109"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}