{"id":8016,"date":"2014-03-24T16:25:37","date_gmt":"2014-03-24T16:25:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/?p=8016"},"modified":"2014-03-24T16:37:33","modified_gmt":"2014-03-24T16:37:33","slug":"lets-ban-sorry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/24\/lets-ban-sorry\/","title":{"rendered":"let&#8217;s ban sorry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>from justine harman&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elle.com\/news\/culture\/instead-of-banning-bossy-lets-ban-sorry\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;while we&#8217;re banning stuff, let&#8217;s ban sorry&#8221;<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Every day, for myriad reasons, women are apologizing to me: for opening a door I am about to enter; for reaching over me at the salad bar; for standing in front of the open refrigerator and gazing at the variety of chilled milks. It&#8217;s the same thing every time: A well-spoken, confident women will notice that we happen to be sharing the same space, cast her eyes downward, and mutter a quick and meaningless, &#8220;sorry.&#8221; Most of the time, I say it back. It&#8217;s nothing more than a ritual, a salutation, a paper-thin pleasantry. But she&#8217;s not sorry. And I&#8217;m not sorry. So why are we saying that we are?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>really weird article pic, kate hudson in <em>almost famous<\/em>? hur? some deep <em>almost famous<\/em> reference for true fanz only? but dude, the gist, YES. all i do is say i&#8217;m sorry. this morning i sent ross a text that apologized for him calling me at 12:30am and me being asleep. what? why. too much apologizing. all the time. i&#8217;m gonna try and ban sorry in my own life and also learn how to say NO without feeling totally guilty and anxious.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>from justine harman&#8217;s &#8220;while we&#8217;re banning stuff, let&#8217;s ban sorry&#8221;: Every day, for myriad reasons, women are apologizing to me: for opening a door I am about to enter; for reaching over me at the salad bar; for standing in front of the open refrigerator and gazing at the variety of chilled milks. It&#8217;s the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8016","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8016","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8016"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8016\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8025,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8016\/revisions\/8025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8016"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bookbinderlocal455.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}