YOU ABSOLUTE HOBAG

Posted: July 30th, 2025 | Tags: | No Comments »

in no particular order, the best of our California trip, July 2025, which was 100% perfect fantastic:

  • the unknowable fathomless ocean
  • fig leaf latte at quail and condor (and pictured croissant was a tomato chocolate croissant?! i wasn’t that into it but i’m all about the croissant exploration)
  • gray skies
  • remembering to use “best bakery in ______” to guide exploration
  • chez panisse dinner extra awesome and charming, tomatoes and champagne and peaches, plus associated memories of past meals in other lives
  • beautiful peaches
  • beautiful strawberries
  • beautiful tomatoes
  • emily, a magical person giving magic to so so many
  • best friends
  • eating pancakes with best friends
  • finally dancing to “levitating”
  • manicure!!!!
  • charming Berkeley
  • sea ranch lodge — sitting in the window seat and watching the water — so beautiful
  • the tile and low light in the sea ranch lodge bathroom
  • skipping rocks at the Gualala River
  • seeing alex and hazel after so so many years
  • mary sue and bob’s sweet lil three-legged dog, pancho
  • ross saying he had “the best avocado toast ever” at farley’s in the oakland airport — could it possibly be true?
  • detouring to valley, emma’s restaurant in Sonoma, just on a wild proud-person whim, ross getting a bagel plate, me getting flowers and a pastry, and emma’s hilarious response to us coming to valley but not letting her know (“YOU ABSOLUTE HOBAG”) — perfection
  • not throwing up on the plane!!!!

what a month

Posted: July 23rd, 2025 | Tags: | No Comments »

good things:

  • tomato sandwiches
  • the smell of lilies
  • friends, family
  • disneyworld with the littles
  • california anticipation — wasn’t sure i’d be able to make it but just thinking about seeing friends and family and staying at the sea ranch lodge and going to eat at chez panisse has given me a great boost
  • thinking about hybrid lexuses lol
  • summer reading ending august 9, praise be, then can i rest?

not great things

  • throwing up ON the plane, in ross’s tote bag
  • throwing up IN the airport, in a busy corridor — possibly my lowest health moment?
  • throwing up a million more times (but at least in a hotel room)

good pink

Posted: July 23rd, 2025 | Tags: | No Comments »
From Holly Howe’s London house in House & Garden

this got me

Posted: July 19th, 2025 | Tags: | No Comments »

patronsaintofweepingmothers:

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2009

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