but what about the big butts

Posted: February 19th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on but what about the big butts

trying to find a bathing suit and there are lots of options for big busts, stomach control, etc. etc., but where doth be the styles for the large butted and large thighed among us?


very digging this look

Posted: February 13th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on very digging this look

don’t care about the necklace but straight vibing the scarf and shirt. courtesy of stella bugbee instagram.


great review

Posted: February 13th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on great review

misconnections

Posted: January 22nd, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on misconnections

UGH STUPIDEST WEEKEND! MISCONNECTIONS / GROUCHINESS / COLDS / COUGHING / ETC.

JUST ALL-OVER DUMB X 10000000


following up on that new year’s resolution

Posted: January 19th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on following up on that new year’s resolution

so far haven’t been all that good on my new year’s resolution (ughhhh) (like…this week after going to dallas and austin, when i got all wound up by work and couldn’t relax and enjoy jd’s going away party), BUT BUT BUT — i do need to tip a hat to two incredible things that i did in austin.

a long time ago i mentioned to john that i’d never seen amadeus, and he said he’d watch it with me anytime. then we joked about making it like an alamo screening with mozart wigs and viennese food and candles and etc. so i mailed him four amadeus wigs as a gag and just bookmarked the idea for some nebulous future.

but when i last minute decided to go to austin after yvonne’s funeral, we decided to watch amadeus and WE ACTUALLY DID THE WHOLE SHEBANG (subbing in ramen for viennese food) (good sub) (VEGAN RAMEN!) (cities are amazing).

and then the next morning i got to see chad and julie and their amazing kids and eat pancakes and drink coffee and be with them.

so maybe i am doing ok on the resolution front? though — my underlying goal was to unclench during stressful times…so — a mixed bag. but take a look at these wigs! i mean!

levi in his mozart wig
❤️ x a zillion

greatest discovery of 2023

Posted: January 19th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on greatest discovery of 2023

just found out that joe strummer and i share a birthday

Joe Strummer of The Clash on a plane over USA. March 1980. © Bob Gruen / www.bobgruen.com

no conflicts have been resolved

Posted: January 12th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on no conflicts have been resolved

felt this excerpt from hanif abdurraqib’s instagram about marvin gaye and his sad sad story.


pretty good sky

Posted: January 12th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on pretty good sky

big mood for 2023

Posted: January 4th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on big mood for 2023
Barbara Walters with the actor Sylvester Stallone in 1988. As an interviewer of celebrities, Ms. Walters became one herself. Credit: ABC and the New York Times

an oldie but a goodie

Posted: January 4th, 2023 | Tags: | Comments Off on an oldie but a goodie
me after a massage in 2020 // martin short in the big picture