man eff this

I love beauty stuff as much as the rest of the world, but damn there’s so much bad in the world — shaming us about our (perfectly lovely, if older!) necks is such bullshit. i mean good grief.

*I think jessica defino’s newsletter is impacting me (in a good way)

today grateful for

• the smell of roses
• hot showers
• mom’s house selling
• nba game pass!!!!!

best name in sports

MOOKIE BETTS

ok ok also this purse but it’s a fever dream

these chanel looks are grooving me

courtesy of harper’s bazaar, October 2025

all you gotta do is say yes

bruuuuuuuuuce

mick

courage, bob.

benicio you wily devil

but i do put it in the paper

from the gentle obituary about north dakota food writer Marilyn Hagerty:

I just write about sort of half-crazy things,” she told The Times in 2020, when she was filing three stories a week instead of the five she had contributed for many years. “Kind of like what you’d tell your friends but you wouldn’t put in the paper, but I do put it in the paper.”

wow to this list of spouses

from actor katherine lanasa’s wikipedia